Went to JPN yesterday. Alot of people, and I have to wait almost two hours. Too bored, I wandered around the office and read all the notices and procedure on the board. I think I began to memorize the marriage/divorce procedure already :-).
Finally they called my name and once I go inside there are 3 people sitting in fron of me. One chinese guy, one Indian guy (who looks annoying), and one Malay lady (the very same lady attending our marriage application and register last time!) I started to sweat (earlier I was shivering of air cond).
Refuse to talk alot, just wait for them to ask me. The look of the Indian guy really makes me nervous and blur, not sure where to start. Another two of them busy writing, and writing on the blue paper. When i was about to start talking the Indian guy suddently went out, feel relieve and focus on the other two. Not very long session. When they asked, I just answer. They ask why I want to divorce, what happen, is there anyway to get back together, etc, etc... Then the Malay lady explain that next month they will call my ex, they will ask him whether he agree with the divorce, if not, they will have to call both of us for counseling session. After that only they will grant me Marriage Tribunal (if I still insist on divorce).
I just hope he didn't turn up for his session. That would makes thing easier. I just want to get over all this as soon as possible, as my daughter still under 7 years old.