29 October 2009

Marriage Tribunal

After so long thinking whether to go ahead or hold our divorce, I went anyway last month. The very same place we register, same place take a vow on each other, same staff that handling our marriage last time. Great, feels like couldn't breath. Anway, I need to go for Marriage Tribunal since my husband wouldn't sign joint petition. With Marriage Tribunal Cert, hopefully I could apply for divorce.

Last week receive a call from JPN, informed me about the Marriage Tribunal and the appointment. I asked, what happen if I didn't show up on the appoinment day. She told me that after the third reminder, they will cancel my application, hence I will always married to my husband. So, I marked in my calendar my appoinment. At the same time, thought of checking on him whether he changed his mind about our divorce. Beside, I was angry at somebody at the time and I need somebody to be 'hit'. He seems to be the right person.

I started with asking him whether he will sign the joint petition. To my suprise he said, if he free he will do it, although...he said he prefer for us to go out and dating again. Then, purposely I ask about Darlene's expenses and there the fire started again. I just know where his button is....so predictable and easy. We have big fight on the sms. Unlike last time, even his words really rude and rough, but I smile at the end. I think, I psycho already. Need help.